Take a ticket stub or plane ticket or whatever to kinkos, have them blow it up, print it on that fabric transfer stuff and make this pillow.
I miss you
Early Valentine’s Day post because I’m disgustingly in the mood for it this year and I’m in love with you <3
I’m exhausted but you deserve to know all of this and more
I love you.
I love you because you’re willing to try things with me, even if you’re scared to. I really appreciate that, even if I don’t always show it. I love that you’re at least willing to try blood play and that you aren’t shaming me for it. I love that you’re at least willing to try so many things with me that I’ve never trusted anyone else to.
I love that when I talk, you listen. Even when I’m just talking to talking; or when I’m bitching about the stupidest things; or I’m having an emotional breakdown. You just let me talk.
I love that you understand everything. You understand that I have bad days and I sometimes take it out on you. You understand why I self-harm. You understand that sometimes I don’t mean to, it just happens. You understand that sometimes I get angry at everyone for no reason at all, you also understand that I’ll get over it all just as quickly. You just understand so much, I wish I had the time to write it all down.
I love how patient you are with me. Even at times when I know you’re so sick of me(Like when you’re horny and you just want me to stop teasing you and either actually do something or leave you alone. Or whenever you’re not in the mood and I just keep trying because I want to fuck((Im so sorry)) Or when I’m being needy and I won’t let you go. Or whenever I I fuck up terribly and panic)
I love how you respect me. Although part of me was upset that you didn’t “fight” for me, the other part was so proud that I had chosen a partner who loved and respected me enough to understand that that was my decision(And that even if I did regret it, that you would respect me enough not to badger me) I love that even though you’re Jewish and I don’t really identify under any branch of religion but still wear a Saint Jude pendant and I love that you don’t give me shit about it. Even though you know that if you asked me, I would take it off until I left your house.
I am so proud to call you mine. You are so strong and kind
A comfort box is a great simple idea that you can try at home. A comfort box is a box which you can fill with things that relax you or calm you. Bags and backpacks can also make great portable alternatives to an actual box.
Here are some possible things a comfort box or bag could include:
- Your favourite chocolate or candy
- Stuffed animals or toys
- Your favourite Books or poems
- Colouring kits or drawing materials
- A journal
- Play Doh
- A soft blanket
- Non triggering films or TV series
- Comfort food recipes
- Playlists of soothing music
- Bath or shower items (bath bombs etc)
- Scented candles
- safety plan printable cards
- Bubble wand
- Ear plugs
- Body lotions
- Pictures of loved ones and/or pets
- Herbal tea
- Stress ball
- Relaxation or meditation exercises or audios
- Old birthday cards
- Friendship bracelets or recovery bracelets
Do you have something that calms or relaxes you that you would place in a comfort box that isn’t on this list? Please feel free to leave a message in our inbox and we will update the list.